My boyfriend has me confused. what does this behavior mean? whats the deal! help please?

In almost all relationships the novelty wears off at some point and you both start to get irritated at things that you would have laughed off or ignored at the begining of the relationship. This is normal. What bother me, is that you are masking your true feelings to accomodate him. A relationship needs both partners to pitch in and compromise, talk things out, and over-all love each other and know that no human being is perfect! You need to make him understand that you feel that he isn't putting in his all in your relationship and that you want to know why he acts the way he does. If he truely loves you and appriciates you for the intelligent, caring, and able-to-put-up-with-his-childish-behavio… type of girl you are, he won't prosecute you, but agree to see things from your perspective and try to compromise, and/or change his bahavior. If he gets angry at you for wanting to talk to him about this, tries to make you go through a guilt trip, or totally ignors your requests, then he is not the same person you fell in love with.